Who am I?
My name is Alycia Caroline I'm a Self-Worth and Dream Life Mentor. I'm dedicated to helping women 25+ understand self-worth or self-value is dependent on only one thing - THEMSELVES. In discovering and growing your belief in your self-worth this will help you to fearlessly live the life of your dreams!
A few years ago I was lost, insecure, and I didn't even know what would make me happy. There was no spark. I had to make a change. I decided to be honest with what I wanted my life to be like.
I wanted to love myself. I wanted to feel joy everyday. I wanted my self-worth to be higher. The problem was I didn't know how to go about creating these changes in my life.
I remember when I realized how much I didn't like myself. I felt completely worthless and unlovable. Why would anyone want to spend time with me when I didn't even want to spend time with myself?
Extreme?! Absolutely - but when you are feeling lost its easy for the negativity to start spiraling you down a hole of darkness.
One day I discovered a TedX video of Eva DeVirgilis a makeup artist talking about the self perspective of beauty. Eva spoke about when women sit in her makeup chair they apologize for something weight, acne, wrinkles, nose size, etc. Everyone measures themselves to the idyllic beauty that society shows us. Eva explains in her video that the people who don't apologize for something when sitting in her makeup chair are just happy to be alive due to illness or old age. At the end of the video Eva asks what it will take to accept and own our beauty.
The video really spoke to me and I shared it with some coworkers. It wasn't until a coworker told me it was a nice theory but she would never look in the mirror and see anything that her flaws that something clicked. If you can't look in the mirror and see what is good would anyone be able to see your goodness?